Today, a blogger I follow shared the story of his breakup and his inner reflections. He was very genuine, dissecting his true needs, admitting his avoidance, and explaining why he chose to break up with a girl he considered truly wonderful.
I don’t want to judge whether he was right or wrong, and I’m not saying your thoughts will align with his. But his sharing gave me an inspiration—I should evaluate this relationship more from your perspective.
Am I the right person for you? Is what I’m giving what you truly want?
I’ve always said that love is about fulfilling your wishes, and that you are free. But when your wish doesn’t include me, and when that ‘me’ feels so much pain, how hypocritical that is. 😂
I believe you are a wonderful and independent person, with your own thoughts and judgments; you just haven’t told me.
But I trust you.
I trust that you’re making the choice that’s best for you, and in that, we are aligned.
Love is not a cage. Even if we are together, you still have the right to leave at any time.
I really liked a line that the blogger said: ‘Be the self that never apologizes.’ I long so much for the happiness of being together with you, but I can also accept life without you.
You need to have faith in me too.
We both need to be the selves who never apologize.
The flower meaning of blueberries is: "I love only you."It’s also your name😀, an symbolic icon for me.
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